Golf almost every day. Smoke rolling in the backyard. Finally enough time for both.

I’m Steve Miller. After 40 years building enterprise networks, I retired in 2026 — and I’m not exactly slowing down. This is home base for the golf, backyard cooking, travel, family, and projects filling the next chapter.

Thanks for stopping by… After all, I’m Livin’ the Dream

House and backyard with covered patio, pool, and lounge chairs at sunset

This backyard is where many of the stories, recipes, and ideas you’ll find on these sites begin.

Meet Steve

I spent four decades in enterprise networking before retiring in 2026. My wife and I live in Tennessee with the youngest of our three daughters. Our oldest lives abroad, currently in Mexico, while our middle daughter is in California with my son-in-law and grandson—who I’m already making excuses to visit more.

Golf is close to a daily habit at this point, backyard cooking has been a 20-year obsession, and now that I’ve got the time, travel is becoming a regular thing too. This site is where the parts that don’t fit anywhere else live.

Explore My Other Sites

Steve’s three Weber Smokey Mountain smokers lined up in the backyard

BackyardSmoking.com

A smoking meat website focused on backyard barbecue, low-and-slow cooks, and learning by doing.

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Backyard griddle cooking scene for Backyardgriddle.com

BackyardGriddle.com

Cooking on a Blackstone Griddle with practical meals, experiments, and backyard favorites.

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Golf scene for Scaredlittlebitch.com

ScaredLittleBitch.com

Where fear meets the scorecard. A satirical but technical snapshot of my trials and triumphs on the golf course.

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Faith, Hope, and Cancer: A Survivor's Tips, by Carol Westfahl

In Memory of My Mother

My mother, Carol, wrote Faith, Hope, and Cancer to share what she learned during her own cancer journey, in her own words and her own voice. This site is dedicated to keeping her story and her wisdom alive.